"Why can't you just focus?!!!"
It is the night before an important assignment is due at school. It is on the most boring of topics. Your child has left it to the last minute. Every time they try and switch their brain into gear to get it done, it gets worse. They can't focus. You can feel your stress rising. Why can't they just focus! The more they try, the harder it gets!
I know you understand what I am talking about. It is so hard for people with ADHD to focus on things that they are not interested in. I watch my kids (and husband) struggle with this daily. Sometimes...
I was thinking about what the most important things are that I want my kids to know as they navigate through life with ADHD. We get so caught up in just surviving each day that I loved the idea of sitting down and writing a list of the things I want them to learn from my experiences.
I have 3 boys with ADHD and I spent some time last weekend thinking about what I want them to learn from me. Not as an ADHD coach but as their mum. What advice would I give them or what are 10 things that I would like them to know.
Here they are:
I know making and keeping friends can be...
2021 has been challenging for most people in our lovely community. I have been reflecting and taking a little minute over the Christmas break to think about what I want for me and my family in 2022. What can we change to make 2022 as enjoyable as possible?
For most of us we just want to have a little more time to slow down and enjoy things. Most of us are a little bit burnt out by 2021.
I wanted to give you a little gift to say thank you for being a part of this community. Below is my FREE "Start the year right checklist". Print it, pop it on the...
What is Chronic Fatigue?
In our final 5 minute video in this mini series, Jules discusses Chronic Fatigue and energy levels.
We hope you have loved our mini series. If you have any suggestions for another mini series, reach out to us at [email protected]
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What can we do when we can't take away the stress?
In our second 5 minute video of our Looking after yourself series, the wonderful Jules will talk about this important topic and how we can manage stresses.
We hope you are loving these brilliant and helpful videos!
Look out for our third and final video from Jules on Chronic Fatigue, it will be on it's way to you soon.
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Hey - are you exhausted?
I talk a lot about how important it is to take care of ourselves because what we deal with each day can be challenging.
We need to have something left in our tank to weather the storm of life. I am so lucky to show you this series of three short 5 minute videos from our wonderful naturopath friend, Jules Galloway, as she touches on sleep, stress and chronic fatigue.
Today's blog is all about SLEEP
Jules works with women with fatigue and exhaustion. She really brings so many valuable tips in these 5 minute videos.
It is well worth a watch, so...
I had the wonderful opportunity to chat with Kim Hopkins from Lives In The Balance (who works closely with and trains people on Dr Ross Greene's methods (Author of The Explosive Child to help bring his strategies into practice). Kim was AMAZING and full of incredibly practical information and helpful advice on dealing with challenging...
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It is time to bring back the family meeting!
We are a family, but it doesn't always feel that way. Sometimes it feels like we are all running our own race with the intensity of life. The family meeting brings us back together so we feel connected and know what is going on with each others lives.
The ADHD brain is often an anxious brain. They are worried about what is coming next. Their brain likes routine, structure and security. Having a family meeting shows each family member what is coming up. It also has the added advantage of...
There is no doubt, teachers are magical humans. Their job is one of the hardest, most important jobs in the whole world.
One amazing teacher has the ability to change a student's life. They impact how a student feels about learning. When a child thinks their teacher likes or gets them, they try harder.
When my husband was in primary school, not much was widely known about ADHD. He was very disruptive and sometimes aggressive in the classroom - there were not many strategies then about handling ADHD kids.
The Principal saw something in Anthony. He...
So often our ADHD kids struggle to maintain friendships. As parents we do so much work counselling our kids on how to make friends and what they should do to keep them.
It occurred to me that there is no resource that we can provide neurotypical children/families about how to be friends with an ADHD kid.
ADHD is so incredibly common, coaching kids on how to handle ADHD kids could be a step in changing the stigma and lessoning the rejection our kids feel everyday.
I have worked on this list with my son, Xavier. Most of these words are his. It actually made me incredibly proud to hear...